"A Cultural Approach to Male-Female Miscommunication" by Daniel N. Matlz and Ruth A. Borker

This article was also pretty accurate according to my own experiences. I thought it was interesing how they explained that women are far more likely to ask questions and carry the responsibility of keeping a conversation going. I have found myself doing this multiple times, especially when I'm meeting new people. This article also expressed the same notion as Tannen's article, that women are more likely to use pronouns such as "we" and "us" whereas a man is less likely. The thing that struck a chord deeply with me from this article was the concept of "delayed minimal responses". This has been a source of frustration and sometimes humor throughout my two years of marriage. If my husband and I are discussing something or if one of us is upset, he has a tendency to not respond or say anything at all. Sometimes I go on talking or "expressing my feelings", and when he decides to speak, he'll resond to something I said fifteen minutes before. While at times it is extremely frustrating, it's extremely humorous after the fact because men and women communicate SO differently! It's amazing that men an women found a way to communicate at all. It really does take an honest effort to learn the in's and out's of female-male communication.